"I just found out my favorite aunt has terminal cancer," Bobby shared. "She's one of the most wonderful people in the world! She never missed a birthday, always came to my soccer games, and made me feel exceptionally special. I just can't believe she's dying."...
(Trauma trigger warning; this could be a difficult story to read, depending on your personal history.) Pain. Part of my daily life is sitting with people in the midst of deep, dark, raw pain. "Is it normal for someone to try and have sex with...
"I am done with on-line dating!" Suzanne emphatically declared. "Oh no, what happened?" I asked. A few months ago Suzanne had passionately researched on-line dating options for people over 60, and landed on a few sites that focused on her age-range, retirement status, and her...
Bruce lives an enviable life. Having worked for years in the corporate world, his retirement includes the financial resources to afford luxurious vacations, high-end sports equipment, and a new modern home with expansive views. He enjoys an active dating life, attends various charitable functions, and...
Bob started talking even before he sat down in the chair. "I've made so many changes in my life! Over the past few years I've stopped using substances, started exercising, included vegetables and fruit in my diet, reconnected with my adult kids, and just wrapped...
Trevor looked at me with tears spilling onto his cheeks, "I just want to see my cousins for the solstice. We always go to their house. I don't understand why I don't get to go this year." Trevor and I were in the middle of...
Tina sat in front of me with a huge grin on her face. "I did it!" she exclaimed. "I convinced him to take the kids while I go to Mexico with my girlfriends." I felt confused. Tina had been talking with...
Paul came to the Zoom screen looking exhausted, yawning after every answer to my checking-in questions. "What's going on?" I finally asked him. "Are you sleeping ok?" "I guess," he mumbled. I started asking him about his schedule for the past week. "Normal?" he said....
Yvonne came to her counseling session upset about her friend group. "I'm always the one that initiates getting together," she explained. "I find the movie, pick the latest restaurant, or find the concert tickets. Then I text everyone, coordinate schedules, budgets and...
Donovan had minimal contact with his father, Joseph. As a young man he'd had some serious fights with his dad, over everything from money to his character. Now in his 60's, Donovan came to me to work on a plan to re-connect with...
